Gratitude is the ability to be thankful and to see and appreciate the good that’s in our lives. As an educator, mother of two children, and program director, gratitude is both professionally and personally important to me.
In my own life, gratitude helps me keep a wider lens to allow my mind and heart to stay open. Often, when life gets busy or things get challenging, it easier to get fixated on what is wrong or troubling me. Although this is normal, I have found, that in these moments, I can intentionally practice gratitude to help to shift to a more positive space. I can pause and chose to reflect on a few things that I am grateful for right now. When I remember to do this, I immediately feel my heart and mind expand to more possibility and I'm not as contracted.
As a mother and educator, I witness the many potential benefits of installing mindfulness and gratitude practices from a young age. Children can so easily understand the idea of gratitude and I see how it can contribute to their overall sense of awe, happiness, and wellbeing. Learning these practices as children, when their brain and mindset is developing, with the support of their family and school community can help them build a solid foundation for mental health as they grow into adulthood.
Gratitude doesn't just feel good. Making a habit of gratitude can also be good for us. Like other positive emotions, such as joy, love, and compassion; feeling grateful on a regular basis can have a big effect on our lives.
New research is starting to explore how gratitude works to improve our mental health. In an interesting study highlighted by the Greater Good Magazine, 300 adults (mostly college age) saw significant mental health benefits in just 4 and 12 weeks of writing gratitude letters. Here are some of their findings:
Here are some ways I like to unpack gratitude with the children I work with:
Favorite Gratitude Quotes:
This collection of some of my favorite gratitude quotes can also serve as inspiration for a thankful heart. You can post them in your classroom and invite students to add their reflections on the quotes on chart paper in a gallery walk or use them as conversation starters in a sharing circle.
Other Conversation Starters:
3 Gratitude Activities:
Trace the Source: Where Did That Come From
Children can have the mindset that things just “appear” in front of them. (for example, new shoes may come into their lives when they need them, or often a meal is just “served.” They are sometimes unaware of how those shoes or that meal are the product of a long line of efforts from various people.
To show students that everything is interconnected, have them research an object of their choice, tracing how it gets to them. In the shoe example, that would include a process that starts with a designer, manufacturing, and distribution to the mall before their parents can purchase the shoes.
Gratitude photo hunt
Send students on a photo hunt at the beginning of the week. Using their tablets, phones, or cameras, have them capture objects or moments for which they are thankful. At the end of the week, have them share their work in a presentation or via a shared Pinterest board.
You may also like the following Gratitude related resources:
About the Author:
Mayuri Gonzalez (E-RYT, RCYT) has been practicing yoga and meditation for over 25 years since her own childhood and specializes in bringing yoga and mindfulness to children. She has taught for Little Flower Yoga since 2010 and is currently the Director of The School Yoga Project, a program of LFY offering direct service yoga and mindfulness classes for preschools and K-12 schools in the Greater New York Area, staff development workshops, staff yoga, and tools for schools nationwide.
When new books to share mindfulness and yoga with teens are released, we typically await them eagerly, as this can be a hard population to reach and good resources are scarce.
Mariam Gates new offering, This Moment is Your Life (and so is This One), exceeds all of our expectations and provides teens and tweens with a powerful, yet simple and engaging, guide to bring mindfulness into their daily life.
The book is a joy to explore, with interesting exercises, beautiful illustrations, and a friendly tone that never feels patronizing. Mariam is clearly a supporter of the brilliance of young people. Her belief in their power and potential lives in every page.
This is a guide I wish I had had myself during my adolescent years, but I'm learning from and enjoying it now as an adult as well. I look forward to sharing it with our students and clients.
Don't just do something, be here.
The key to happiness is being able to find comfort in this moment, here and now. When you are completely present and not distracted by regrets, worries, and plans, even for a little while, you begin to feel more confident and can deal more easily with everything you experience. This is mindfulness: paying attention to this very moment, on purpose and without judgment--simply being present with curiosity.
This engaging guide, packed with simple exercises and endearing full-color artwork, provides a handy starting point for bringing mindfulness into your daily life. Chapters on meditation, yoga, and mindful breathing explain the benefits of these practices, and you are free to pick and choose what to try. There are quick exercises throughout, and a more extensive tool kit at the end of each chapter. The final chapter offers satisfying five-day challenges that map out ways to pull all of the book's mindfulness techniques together in your day-to-day life.
With the appeal of a workbook or guided journal, and full of examples relevant to tweens and teens today, this book will be your trusted companion as you begin the valuable, stress-relieving work of being still with skill.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR AND ILLUSTRATOR
Mariam Gates has a master's degree in education from Harvard University and has been teaching children for more than twenty years. The founder of Kid Power Yoga, she now devotes herself to training children and adults in yoga and mindfulness. She is the author of the picture books Meditate with Me, Good Night Yoga, and Good Morning Yoga. She lives with her husband, Rolf Gates, and their two children in Santa Cruz, California.
Libby VanderPloeg is an illustrator and designer living in Greenpoint, Brooklyn. She grew up in Grand Haven, Michigan, on the edge of the Great Lakes, and since then, she has lived in Grand Rapids, Chicago, New York, and Stockholm. She's created book covers and editorial illustrations for the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and Design*Sponge, among others, and as well as a line of cards and prints that she sells via her Etsy shop and in stores.